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From:	kcook (67.235.253.209)
Subject:	Re: Should I stay?
Date:	December 14, 2008 at 4:03 pm PST

In Reply to: Re: Should I stay? posted by Keith on December 10, 2008 at 9:53 am:

Thanks for the input. I found enough courage to seek couseing at the local domestic violence center. It felt good to finally tell somebody else. Keeping it hidden and bottled up inside is driving me crazy. I am always pretending my life if normal or fine, but I know it is not and I don't want anyone to know how bad it is. I am going to continue with conseling. My conselor told me could get a ingunction (sp) againest him and he can't come near me or the kids. But I am so afraid of what he would do if I did. I just don't beleive that any of us would be any safer. At least when he is here I know where he is and what his mood is. Not knowing is so frightening. Either way it is a time bomb just waiting to go of. I am going to conseling again tommorrow. I am learning about the domestic violence cycle. I guess my biggest question is can someone-like this (my husband) change or better themselves?

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