If I would you,and could afford it ;), I would fill that charge. it is time for all of us to stand (and if necessary, fight) for our basic rights - for a change... You stated clearly 3 times your quest for her nutritional care at the school? if they are not obligated to pay attention and respect different nutritional needs (from any reason - religious,philosophic,health,...), they wouldn't provide an option within a form. They had no excuse for letting a 4 year old pass a day on a biscuit =/ ! ...I have a 4 month old son, we live in Bosnia and here people liknk vegetarian with fanaticism, bulimia syndrome & some "weird unnecessary western food fashion". ...not to mention vegan =/ My child is male, which might be more difficult to accept - so I see some "interesting" time coming...but hey,...we wil manage I stand for our rights ...and try to educate others...if possible =) Good luck!...to all of us ;) and heads UP!