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| From: | Nat (wolax10-137.dialup.optusnet.com.au)
| | Subject: | the inherent disrespect in morning sex, both sexes input appreciated-adult content | |
Date: | September 25, 2005 at 11:37 pm PST |
Ok, I wanted to get input on this matter, to find out if my thoughts are a general angry at men reaction or an angry for reasonably percieving that i would be being disrespected reaction. I think the latter, since i've thought this many times before, but still would like others opinions on it. The subject is men's morning-just-woken-up-probably-just-have-a-full-bladder-or-had-a-horny-dream-erections.
I've always thought that when a man has an above mentioned erection, i feel disrespected by his wish to have sex with me at that time. It's kinda the same as if a partner just watched porn, or some other woman caused his horniness, but you're the one he comes to for 'release'. Which obviously feels much like being used as a masturbation aide.
So when a guy is hard for one of the above reasons, i feel disrespected and used and thus (i feel justifiably)angry that he would come to me for sex. If it's not his attraction to ME that causes his wood, i am not gonna feel good if he comes to me to work on it.
What are your opinions and feelings about this type of proposition? I'm personally currently talking from a general context, and not from one of being in a relationship and having to find a way to respond to this, but if you are and do i would love your opinion. And if you're not in a relationship i would still love your opinion. Thanks all, Nat
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