hi sally, it is funny that you should write that and i find it. yes i have a 15 yr old son who obviously has ocd. i am reading a book called"talking back to ocd" i for get who the author is but i got it from the libary. i am at a loss myself and have been trying to read about it b/c we can't afford therapy for him. the book seem to lend some good insights(i am not that far into it)and i am hoping it helps. it is very frustrating for him as well as us. please post back if you find anything. take care and sorry i didn't have more to offer. karen