Thank you both for your encouragement. I have 3, two boys that are 10 and one girl 12. I am scared of what this will do to them. I haven't worked since the boys were a year. I've been thinking of getting a part time job now, to get back in the swing and everything works out, then I'll have some extra money. I'm very anxious, like I'm waiting for something. I keep praying and hs to keep my head up. My husbands grown kids are in another state and he wants to move back, but I have to stay where my kids dad is, because of the law. He says I have to pick, I can't. There are other issues, but I seem to be weary, he keeps my head going in circles. I'm scared the kids dad will ask for custody of the kids if were not living in a nice house. Being a single mom, I know I won't be able to keep up with him. Can he do that? Thank you again.