I can relate..my daughter is now 13 (as of today) and is at a 5th grade level. When she was in school she wouldnt pay attention and was diagnosed as an ADHD kid. I put her on Concerta but due to the side affects took her off. The school did not support my decision to take her off and they were not helping at all. I am now trying to get her caught up to speed and it is truly a challenge. I love homeschooling however I am really trying to kee her socially active.....Venting as well