follow the Lord. Your children have to work out their own salvation. Sometimes that means they make poor decisions, but when they finally latch on to the Lord on their own they will be very strong. I have had 2 of 4 children forsake the way of the Lord. I continue to see them struggle. I also see that they has those roots still there with some of the comments they make. I know they will be back some day. Live a good life unto the Lord as an example, don't preach to them, and watch them change. The greatest witness is a good example.