I think that when vegans nitpick each other over minor points (honey, or refined sugar, or even less important topics) that it does a disservice to the message that most of us would like to send to the world at large. "Vegan" can not be seen as an absolute, because virtually no one can live up to it. If you drive a car-you are squashing bugs, if you see a movie-the film is made with gelatin, etc. etc. The term vegan should be applied to any person who does not eat meat, dairy, or eggs, or their obvious by-products. Beyond that it's a grey area. Although I will admit to being inwardly annoyed with leather-wearing vegans.;)

I would simply say that you eat a nearly vegan diet.

I have to thank all of you, again, for all of your support and feedback. Since posting this, I have been 100% vegan with my diet. I don't think I have been even slightly tempted. :)