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Anger Management: Channeling Anger Into Effective Communication

2012-01-25T19:17:55Z

Anger is a signal device to inform that there is a perceived threat. In relationships, anger is used to emotionally beat up the other person. Best that anger be channeled into calm, effective communication of one's concerns so that problems can be resolved in such a way that the needs of all parties are addressed and met. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO Forgive To Win!

Why The Law of Attraction Doesn't Work For Most People

2012-01-07T17:54:53Z

The Law of Attraction doesn't work for most people because despite what they consciously strive for, despite what thoughts they keep in the forefront of their conscious mind, despite all their proactivity, practice, persistence and perseverance, they have an unconscious program of self-sabotage that is running the game and keeping all of life's goodies that they desire at arm's length. The solution to this problem is to eliminate the self-sabotaging behaviors by eliminating what's causing them: unconscious guilt, shame, and self-loathing. How do we do this? By loving and forgiving ourselves. How do we do this? By loving and forgiving others. How do we do this? By consciously focusing on acceptance, tolerance, generosity, graciousness, gratitude, compassion, forgiveness, estimable acts of kindness and service to others. As we engage in these behaviors as best we can, unconditionally and without exception, every day and in every way possible, we send the message to our subconscious mind that we are good enough, that we are worthy of reward not punishment, and our subconscious mind then puts an end to the inner critic that influences us to sabotage ourselves, and it directs the Law of Attraction to work for us rather than against us, and we begin to manifest the life we desire. Forgive To Win! SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

End Self Sabotaging Behaviors Getting in the way of your Happiness, Success & Inner Peace

2012-01-02T17:51:21Z

Most of us don't get what we want in our lives because we sabotage ourselves: We procrastinate. We resist. We don't follow through. We don't do the things that we know are in our best interests. The end result is a life of unfulfillment and disappointment. It doesn't have to be that way. When we eliminate the guilt, shame, and self-loathing deeply-embedded in our unconscious mind which generate our self-destructive, self-defeating behaviors, our world changes for the better: We start attracting people and circumstances that cooperate with our goals and propel us towards the manifestation of all our hopes and dreams. The way to eliminate our guilt, shame, and self-loathing is to esteem ourselves and forgive ourselves. The way to esteem ourselves and forgive ourselves is to esteem and forgive others. Forgive To Win!'s Forgiveness Diet is a structured program that teaches us how to do this. It's not complicated. And it works! By consistently practicing a daily regimen of thoughts, actions and exercises devoted to accepting, forgiving and being of service to others, our self-esteem increases, our self-sabotaging behaviors decrease, and we experience greater opportunities and more positive outcomes in all realms of our lives. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO http://amzn.to/v4Xx1q

How To Overcome Feelings Related To Betrayal

2011-12-04T17:02:50Z

The best way to overcome feelings related to betrayal is to recognize that harboring negative feelings towards others, regardless of how they have behaved, is a betrayal of yourself, your Higher Self, your Spirit, your Soul. It is our mission here to discover the meaning and power of love and we do that by letting go of judgment and anger, replacing them with acceptance and forgiveness. Mourn the loss of a relationship damaged by betrayal, release the anger, the resentment, the desire for vengeance, find a way to forgive for your own peace of mind. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

Do You Have The Life That You Want and Does Depression Have Anything To Do With It?

2011-11-30T17:35:07Z

People often say they are too depressed to do the things they want to do. But sometimes it's because they haven't done the things they want to do and have allowed their lives to stagnate that depression begins and gradually builds over time until the depression seems to be the cause of the inertia in their lives rather than the result of it. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

The Problem With Thanksgiving

2011-11-24T20:42:29Z

The problem with Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, birthdays, etc. is that we go out of our way on these particular days to be considerate, loving and grateful. And then the next day we revert back to being thoughtless, inconsiderate, unloving, taking our loved ones for granted, and being caught up in ourselves. As long as we relegate selfless acts of gratitude and love to a handful of days a year we can be sure that our world will continue to be a mockery of the heaven on earth it could be. Bottom line: Take time every day to find ways to enrich the lives of others. Take time every day to love ye one another. http://forgivetowin.com SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

Hate The Sin, Not The Sinner. Love The Message, Not The Messenger

2011-11-23T20:48:50Z

The problem with many people who profess to be devout worshipers of their religion, whatever it might be, is that they fanatically and zealously worship their God, their Guru, their whatever, but don't worship the message. They don't apply the principles in their lives. They don't walk the talk, they don't practice what their religion preaches. A tragic mistake that gives religion a bad name and doesn't move humanity forward, towards greater compassion, communication and cooperation, which is the ultimate purpose of religion in the first place.SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO http://forgivetowin.com

Go Forth Today and Do Something Different

2011-11-13T16:41:38Z

There are so many things we put off for another day. Take a moment today to think about these things. Decide to put at least one of these things into action today. Consider the possibility that when you surprise yourself by doing something different, the universe may return the favor. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO. P.S.: Please "LIKE" my Facebook Page: http://on.fb.me/vZSKSu

Judging A Book By Its Cover - The Importance of Balance

2011-11-12T17:40:00Z

It's important to put your best foot forward but it's also important to maintain balance which sometimes might demand that we simply put a foot forward, whether it be the best one or not, while attending to other equally important priorities.SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

Keep Your Mind Focused On The Objective: Forgiveness, Acceptance & Love

2011-11-09T21:13:24Z

The key to success is keeping your mind focused on the goal which is forgiveness, acceptance and love. The key is to not let the voice of ego and negativity influence our consciousness and derail us. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO.

Love Ye One Another? - Easier Said Than Done

2011-11-06T16:46:10Z

It's not easy to forgive. Many of us wonder why we should even bother. Many of us are so filled with rage and indignation over all the terrorism, victimization and attack all around us, the thought of turning the other cheek, acceptance and forgiveness is ludicrous. And anyone preaching such a position in these turbulent times must be living in a Mary Poppins universe, out of touch with the reality of 21st century mayhem... I understand. And I'm here to say that the point of preaching forgiveness, acceptance and love amidst all the aggression, chaos and confusion is simply to remind all of us, myself included, that those ideals are a place we should try to get to... someday.... regardless of how insane or difficult the premise of unconditional acceptance, forgiveness and love may presently seem to be. SCROLL DOWN TO VIEW VIDEO

Why Wait Any Longer For Your Life To Begin?

2011-10-30T16:13:15Z

Why sit around waiting for something to happen that you can react to? Why not make something happen and then react to the reactions that your actions generate? As Bob Dylan once wrote, "Why wait any longer for your world to begin? You can have your cake and eat it too." SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO http://forgivetowin.homestead.com

If You Build It, He Will Come - (Day 73 Forgiveness Diet Mentoring)

2011-10-29T15:58:37Z

If you build your internal field of integrity, if you get your own house in order, if you release your judgments and unforgiveness, if you focus on gratitude and acceptance, inner peace will come to you, joy will come to you, an ability to live life to the fullest, in the Now will come to you. http://bit.ly/on5Fi7 SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

Forgiveness Is Just Another Word For Nothing Left To Lose ?

2011-10-16T14:51:32Z

Forgiveness is not something that you should put off for a rainy day. Forgiveness is not something you should try after you've tried everything else. Forgiveness should be at the top of your priority list of things to do each and every day, as best you can, unconditionally and without exceptions. Go forth and forgive! And then watch your world get better! SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO

Does The Law of Attraction Ever Not Work?

2011-10-15T14:32:51Z

I often hear people complain that the law of attraction doesn't work. It's not true. Just because you consciously want a specific outcome and you don't get it doesn't mean that the law of attraction has failed you. If, at an unconscious level, you believe you are unworthy and deserving of punishment, not reward, the law of attraction will attract scarcity, lack, failure and disappoint, which is why it is critical to eliminate guilt, shame and self-loathing deeply embedded in the unconscious which causes self-sabotaging behaviors and unfulfillment. My book, "Forgive To Win!: End Self-Sabotage, Get Everything You Want" offers the Forgiveness Diet -- a way to make the Law Of Attraction work for you rather than against you. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO