If you are in a relationship where you are constantly bringing up the past, unable to let go of your resentments and grievances, the relationship will never heal because you will continue to see through the eyes of the past....

I just nominated myself to be a speaker at the next TED Conference. The Theme is "Truth and Dare." The application asked me to explain how my "Forgive To Win!" talk would fit into that theme. This is what I...

The mind-body connection is much greater than most people appreciate. Our thoughts create our reality. Our thoughts dis-ease us. Our thoughts can heal us. Laughter isn't the best medicine. Forgiveness, acceptance and love are. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

The true self-healing power of forgiveness requires that we put no conditions on our forgiveness and we make no exceptions. This means we forgive others regardless of whether or not they apologize or make amends or are nice to us....

No amount of success or material gain will heal a wounded heart or satisfy an empty soul. Discover your humanity and your spirit will soar. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

We tend to take our loved ones for granted. We don't treat them as well as we should. We are oftentimes angry and irritable with them. We are oftentimes selfish, rude, sarcastic and unloving. Best we stop behaving in these...

You are a committed person with a serious cause that could change the world. You have a strong worldwide group supporting you. You're in a small minority compared to the mainstream, but you're OK with that, because you have...

Rock A Bye Baby is not a harmless song. It sends some very bizarre messages to infants that can contribute to their future fear, anger and mental illness. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

When you've having difficulty forgiving others, remind yourself that we forgive others for our own peace of mind. We forgive others to release ourselves from the emotional prison of anger, resentment and grievance. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

Want to stop sabotaging yourself? Take your time and read carefully. Stop whatever else you're doing and listen carefully. And think carefully: Consider all options and consequences before speaking and taking other actions. SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

Laughter is healing. It's one of the best medicines out there. It generates endorphins and makes one feel happier. It can strengthen the immune system and help combat illnesses. It can improve the quality of relationships.SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

When we maintain grievances against others we are actually attacking them. When we attack others we feel bad about ourselves at a deep unconscious level, even if we feel justified in our grievances and attack. Our feeling bad about ourselves...

If you want to insist you're right you may win an argument but you will likely lose the relationship. Better to let most things slide, not insist that others capitulate to your will or your viewpoint, let it be, and...

When we are caught up in our little world and our narrow focus we miss the bigger picture where much of our happiness, success and inner peace is waiting for us.SCROLL DOWN TO WATCH VIDEO...

If you claim, "I can't help it, it's who I am," know that this is a con. You're either conning yourself or attempting to con someone else into believing this is true. It's not true. We all have the capacity...

If you are in a bad relationship and have decided to stay there, then instead of co-existing with your partner in a perpetual state of anger and angst, find a way to accept, tolerate and forgive. You'll both be a...

Happiness is an inside job. We have the choice to be happy or not despite what is going on all around us, despite what is happening to us. There are many positive psychology tools we can use to help us...

Most people have a variety of self-sabotaging behaviors that prevent them from manifesting the life that they want. The first step in overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors is to first recognize them. One of the most powerful self-sabotaging behaviors is denial. Denial...

Live each day as if it were your last in terms of loving and appreciating the lives in your life. Who knows when any one of them will depart this mortal coil. Or it may be you who exits stage...

Denial is a unconscious psychological device that people use to avoid dealing with reality, to avoid dealing with facts about themselves that they prefer not to look at or acknowledge. The problem is that when the things we are denying...